Three years ago, I experienced my first touch-free orgasm. It hit me as I was listening to a YouTube movie called "Erotic Hypnosis: Hands-Free Orgasm for Women," and it was quite possibly the best orgasm of my life: There were waves and waves of pleasure all throughout my whole pelvis, instead of just a few vaginal contractions, and they continued for minutes.

Yes, minutes.

There was a catch, though: At the time, I was under the influence of a psychedelic drug. When I tried it again afterward, with a sober mind and body, no luck. So, I enlisted the help of psychologist and sex educator Antonia Hall, MA, author of The Ultimate Guide to a Multi-Orgasmic Life, to learn how to orgasm without any touch.

First, we try tantric

The first thing she taught me was something simple and not directly related to orgasms.

"Slow down, take care of yourself and have more fun. Try relaxing sensual experiences—like taking baths, using lotion and wearing clothes that feel good— that help you get