They Traded In Their Partners for Sex Dolls and Couldn't Be Happier
Whenever 31-year-old accountant Monica Mann feels sexually aroused and in the mood for intimacy, the orgasmic pleasure she enjoys is only limited by her imagination. On reaching the peak of pure ecstasy, she never has to consider her partner's sensitivities or postcoital habits. Once she's climaxed, her handsome man with a ripped physique is instantly banished to her walk-in closet.
And no, we are not talking about a BDSM relationship here.
Matt Traynor, a 36-year-old entrepreneur and father of three, prefers to linger in the presence of his lover, long after climax. Sometimes his body's rushed release of serotonin and DHEA is further stimulated by gazing at the three designer-lingerie-clad sexy ladies in the corner of his bedroom.
These hedonistic experiences are common scenarios that open-minded sex doll owners enjoy on a regular basis.
The sex life investment
After numerous relationship disasters, Mann had her fill with pursuing love.
"No matter how much I tried to give love a chance, the sex side of the relationship, with any man, just never lived up to my expectations," she said. "I simply couldn't find my perfect libido match."
To find the ultimate partner to satisfy her voracious appetite for sex, Mann contemplated hooking up with an experienced male escort. As a woman who takes pride in being good with money, the expense didn't quite seem worth it to her. Instead, she decided to look for an alternative investment for her sex life.
"While online shopping for a high-tech vibrator, I found a sex doll site that stocks clean-cut, silicone and TPE toyboys that are just my type," Mann said. "Only a little customization was required to make a male sex doll absolutely perfect for me."
The sexual experiment
Traynor likes to give full credit to his unfaithful ex for his discovery of sex dolls.
"My confidence took a serious knock after she left me for one of my work buddies," Traynor said. "I felt that it was expected of me to find a replacement for her ASAP. But any guy who attaches himself to the first woman they meet after a breakup is in denial about problems that need fixing."
As it turns out, Traynor had harbored an interest in sex robotics for some time.
"The movie 'Her' is an excellent example of how I've ended up being completely mesmerized by AI and its ability to enhance my sexual experience," Traynor said.
What started as an intimacy experiment quickly became a deeply satisfying alternative sex life for Traynor. He bought his first adult-sized sex doll four years ago and has never looked back. While the curvy, green-eyed brunette with a seductive smile permanently painted on her face may not be quite as technologically sophisticated as Sophie, Gloria and Sabrina (Traynor's most recent purchases), she still remains a favorite between the sheets.
"I guess it's because I picked out features that most closely resemble someone I actually know," he said. "The latest girls are state-of-the-art Gynoid tech and have full body articulation and 3D digital modeling. They're my fantasy partners, so I've gone for specs that are more exaggerated. I'm now saving up for the ultimate Gynoid synthetic humanoid love doll that can speak and move of her own accord."
The sweetest taboo
When most people picture a sex doll in their mind, they might picture a rigid dummy or an outdated vinyl inflatable. But if you're using a sex doll instead of a partner entirely, wouldn't you want an ultra-realistic option with all the upgrades you could get?
State-of-the-art sex dolls that boast ergonomic movable joints allow you to explore multiple sex positions and can be enhanced with special features, such as implanted pubic hair and interchangeable heads. This alternative sexual partner is an appealing option if you're looking for companionship and regular sex, without relationship entanglement.
However, these artificial partners don't come cheap. The fact that customers like Mann and Traynor are willing to drop thousands on their fantasies tells sex and relationship psychotherapist Miranda Christophers something important.
"People are curious to explore sexually and are choosing to embrace their desires," Christophers said. "The fact that more people are buying sex dolls suggests that they feel comfortable in embracing the sex life they would like to have."
State-of-the-art sex dolls that boast ergonomic movable joints allow you to explore multiple sex positions and can be enhanced with special features, such as implanted pubic hair and interchangeable heads.
Traynor, like many men who own sex dolls, is still attracted to women in the flesh.
Occasionally he'll date, but he's no longer in hot pursuit of "the one." Mann, on the other hand, couldn't be happier with her sex doll, Ryan (yes, as in Gosling), and is committed to her alternative relationship.
"I just can't imagine going back to having 'normal' relationships with men that inevitably end up messy," Mann said. "I'm more than happy with what I've got."
Whether you're looking for love that lasts or an intimate connection with absolutely no strings attached (aside from a possible cord or two), a sex doll could be your perfect future partner. Not to mention, the ageless, artificial lover can be conveniently stored away and your personal space isn't compromised after sex.
Plus, if you ever fancy a change, there's no need to dump or cheat on your partner. Simply upgrade to the latest model.