When people who haven’t tried it think of kinky roleplay, their minds are usually drawn to an image of a French maid in a revealing uniform, coquettishly teasing the head of household with a feather duster. If not that, then a doe-eyed secretary bending over seductively to retrieve something from the floor, revealing lacy underwear to please her demanding boss.

These scenes do sound enticing, but there’s so much more to explore in the world of kinky roleplay beyond the boundaries of these stereotypes.

Feel free to explore narratives that really get you going. Focus on the underlying power dynamics that drive your deviant fantasies and the communication tools necessary to carry them out with your partner.

Whatever you may have in mind, this informative guide will help you pull off fiendishly satisfying roleplaying scenes.

Play the part

Most of the time, kinky roleplay deals with some aspect of power exchange. So, let’s unpack this idea a bit more. How does power exchange manifest itself in a scene?

At its core, it is the act of giving control of the situation, or power, to another person. For this exchange,